SELF-DEFENCE FOR EVERYONE

Self-defence training empowers everyone!

Jan 30, 2023

So here’s a fact: a good self-defence class does more than just provide you with the knowledge and skills to defend yourself, it empowers you. Empowerment gives you the means to achieve more and the opportunity to become stronger in yourself, both mind and body. When you feel stronger in yourself, you become more resilient and more capable of dealing anything, even a threatening situation.


Many women and, yes, plenty of men feel they don’t have the strength or power to make choices or be decisive. Not surprisingly, this can have a detrimental effect on self-confidence. This becomes an issue in circumstances that set off one’s internal alarm, highlighting that something’s not right.


We’ve all had that feeling, maybe on more than one occasion, and many of us won’t actually respond to that alarm. Because we all too often ignore our instincts, listening instead to a highly critical internal voice – “It’s my fault this is happening”, “I got it wrong”, “I’m to blame” and so on and on and on.


Victims of crime often blame themselves for something that wasn’t their fault at all. The error, for want of a better word, is that we generally want to believe that everyone shares the same moral principles. Sadly, that’s not true of every person. We are all different with different perceptions of what is right and what is wrong. People who attack or mug others play on that exact notion and use it to their advantage. If you’re walking down a dark street and someone approaches you in such a way that your internal alarm starts ringing, you really need to listen to it!



So what does that have to do with self-defence?


Self-defence training empowers and builds self-esteem because you can feel at ease within a safe environment and learn to react and defend against attack. The beauty of Krav Maga is that you don’t have to be physically big or even fit. The skills you learn are within anyone’s capability and, believe me, everyone that trains in Krav Maga feels more capable physically, mentally and emotionally. You stand taller and feel more confident and that means you become less of a target when you’re out and about. When a person feels vulnerable, they often try to avoid being noticed, almost trying to make themselves smaller. But that only makes them a bigger target – a bully, and that is essentially what an attacker is, looks for those who are vulnerable, smaller and weaker than themselves.


Krav Maga enables you to identify the resources you have around you, common objects that would be useful in a threatening situation. You look at your surroundings with greater clarity and you’re more alert to what is going on around you. Greater awareness means you’re better informed to make decisions if you need to defend yourself. Krav Maga also helps you learn to drop inhibitions – like not feeling embarrassed to take action or, something many of us are reluctant to do, to use your voice. Rather than staying quiet you’ll automatically shout, draw attention and make other people aware that you need help. It’s all about having the confidence to be assertive and being equipped with skills to eliminate a threat as quickly as possible.


You may never need to use the skills you gain from Krav Maga, but that feeling of empowerment will filter into so many other aspects of your life – why not try it and see for yourself?!


By Mark Hurel 29 Apr, 2024
During a recent Krav Generation class there was an interesting conversation that got everyone involved. A student mentioned the increase in the theft of high value items from people travelling on the London Underground, particularly Canada Goose coats and personal belongings such as Apple Airpods and smartphones. It’s become a real problem – on the London Underground alone robberies have increased by over 100% in just six months. Just like we’ve seen shoplifters upping their game and stealing steaks in volume from supermarkets to sell on, there now appears to be a buoyant market for luxury and designer label items sold cheaply and no questions asked – it feels very much like a sign of the hard times we are currently experiencing. It used to be expensive watches that were being ripped off wrists – but where savvy people could easily conceal their watch under the sleeve of a coat or jacket, it’s a lot harder to hide a Canada Goose coat – desirable brands can act like a magnet. Wearing a designer coat shouldn’t make you a target Many of my students agreed that they sometimes feel vulnerable because of what they’re wearing or what phone they’re using in public places. It got me thinking and I decided to run a scenario-based training exercise. As The Standard’s article states, this spate of muggings means that it’s important to be aware of one’s surroundings and who is nearby at all times – it’s something that Krav Generation consistently teaches. So, for the next session I asked students to each bring along an old coat so that we could inject an element of realism to the lesson. The session focused on de-escalation techniques and how to defend against attack. Students wore their coats and carried various personal belongings and we worked on their defence skills. As well as working in the studio, we went outside to a poorly lit area. With ears partially covered, to simulate wearing headphones or Airpods, we worked on their responses to being approached by a gang or threatened by someone with a weapon. Whenever we teach a technique every student works with a partner. We take it slowly, allowing the muscle memory to form and, as it does so, the student’s response becomes increasingly smoother. At the same time, we are mindful to remind students that, despite learning defence techniques, they shouldn’t be lulled into a false sense of security or feel invincible. No one is. Situational awareness is key We train our students to respond appropriately to a situation. In this particular scenario situational awareness means understanding that certain places or environments can hold risks. Wearing headphones or Airpods whilst out and about makes you less aware of your surrounding and more vulnerable to attack. Keeping personal belongings out of sight means you are less likely to become a target. If an attack were to happen, we discuss escape and looking for viable exits. And then there is the one tool that so many of us forget – our voice and the importance of shouting to raise the alarm and attract attention. Scenario-based drills enable students to use the techniques they’ve learnt but this time under a bit of pressure. This helps to train their brains to decipher information quickly in order to determine the best course of action in the given situation. And the muscle memory they have acquired from repetitive practice means they can respond rapidly. Self-defence skills don’t turn us into superheroes Whilst we hope none of our students will ever find themselves in a threatening situation, we want to students to be able to react instinctively rather than feel helpless. And on that note, I’ll finish by reiterating that we never EVER suggest to our students that we’re equipping them with superpowers, that they should recklessly attempt to disarm an attacker or enter into a fight. We can’t even promise that, in a truly threatening situation, a Krav Generation student will be able to perform defence techniques to a sufficiently proficient level to safely counter an attack. But what we can guarantee is that we give them with the defensive tools to do something rather than nothing. Sometimes that is all it will take to keep yourself safe. Why not try a Krav Generation class yourself? The first session is absolutely free! Classes run in Addlestone, Cobham and Esher, with Leatherhead starting on 7 May.
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